wavering

there are times when i get so confused. my mind plays games and my emotions play along. there aren't any solutions to the problem; at least none that i can see. is it part of the growing process to let sense take control and steer through these things?
it's hard to see the forest through the trees from here. things get in the way that are distracting and seem so momentarily overwhelming. is there an easy solution to this? a cure for this? do i even want the cure?